"If you were 6 months into a relationship and someone told you they had a mental disease, would you be upset?" my friend asked me. I delved deeper into the enigma, "you mean like being a vegetarian?" He raised his eyebrow, a sign that he took my question for mockery. It's true, I didn't care about the answer to my question, but he knew I cared less about the answer to his. It was a stalemate. That is, until the waitress came to refill my tea. Seeing his opening, he repeated the question to her. "If you were dating someone and they told you they had a mental illness, would you be mad at them?" The waitress responded, "like being vegan?" Checkmate.