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Who Wants To Divorce A Millionaire?

by Steve Gibson, Feb 23, 2000 2:49pm PST
Related Topics – Wack News

Damn, well it looks like that marry a millionaire marriage thing didnt work out. The chosen wife is asking for a divorce already. She is still scoring like $100,000 worth of goods for strutting her stuff on TV though. That's the American dream right there.




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  • OK, after dealing with the Real World for a while, I\'ll put up my definitive post here.

    Hawkeye, empirical evidence does not support your claims as far as the hypothetical situations go. A mental retard at the age of 35 is not going to magically develop into a genius at 36 (barring a Flowers For Algernon style experience. The evidence simply DOES NOT EXIST to support such a claim. Saying someone\'s intellect stops developing is not the same thing as saying that someone can no longer learn. Of course you can learn. It\'s just that your thought processes are now fixed a certain way, and you won\'t think differently. If you think outside the box, then you always will, if you don\'t then you never will.

    This is Maturity (Definition 3, I believe), the definition that discusses being developmentally complete. There is another definition, which discusses developmental completness, and the characteristics thereof. That is the definition sCary is going by \"I\'ve seen a 17 year old who\'s more mature than a 40 year old\", yes, this is possible, but by the time the 17 year old turns 40, they will be far more mature than they were at 17, while the 63 year old is going to remain exactly as mature as he or she was at 40. This is statistically proven fact. Our argument is simply that the 17 year old is not at the same place in life as the 33 year old to be able to make these kinds of decisions, and whether the 33 year old is Moby or Ole Dirty Bastard, the chances are vey good that the 17 year old will be hurt in the end, one way or the other. She simply isn\'t done growing up yet, while the 33 year old is. Now hawkeye, you can dispute this, but I\'d ask you to show some hard, empirical evidence. Most studies I\'ve seen support the idea that one stops maturing mentally at a certain age range. They are then \"an adult\", per the dictionary definition. I\'m sure you won\'t see this tonight, and I doubt anyone will see it at all, but I read the rest of the thread and I felt that I had to have my last 2 cents. I don\'t really think this argument can go any further without some sort of hard evidence for either side (I know I haven\'t provided this either, aside from the dictionary definitions).

    Anwyay, that\'s all I think I have to say about that, until evidence shows up.











  • I saw an interview with the *cough* bride *cough* where she said she was a \"good Christian girl\" who could only get married \"in a church.\"

    Which begs the question:

    What the hell were you doing on a show called \"Who wants to marry a Multi-Millionaire,\" strutting your stuff in a bikini?

    Now, Darva Conger is playing the \"victim\" card; how \'90\'s can you get? Don\'t cry for Darva, though: I\'m sure the book deal and TV movie will keep her from clipping coupons for quite a while.

    Rick Rockwell? Hell, you can\'t buy that sort of publicity.

    PS - Darva Conger is not a Gulf War \"vet.\" The unit she was a part of never shipped out.









  • Wisdom or maturity, intelligence or experience, the point we \"elder\" people are trying to make that at 25 or so you will realize that at 17 *I* and my id/ego were just a pea in respect to cognitive ability to grasp what *I* now know at 25. This isn\'t saying that one 25 year old is more mature than the next 17-year old, but as you increase in age you will begin to \"see-the-light\" as it were. You\'re outlook on life will be so wider and less narrow as if you were 17... You will realize the decisions you made at 17 were not the most responsible.

    Those of us that are older do not see it as age discrimination, but simply \"awareness\" and a sort of awakening. We\'re also glad the church of Scientology didn\'t nab us while we were wee lads.

    This is a good thing. As children or as young adults there is a natural reason we are less mature. Curiosity assists us in education. By being unbound by the laws of maturity we are physically able to get more mental acuity and feedback in order to eventually attain that level of responsibility that is nessesary to operate on a non-defunct level when it\'s required.

    peace, time to install the 4 n 1\'s and pray Wheel of Time likes \'em...




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    I have to leave now, so here\'s my argument without points of dispute:

    If you agree to my 2 statements:

    A 17 year old has absolutely NOT reached her potential maturity. She is guaranteed to mature more over the next 10 years or so.

    and

    A 35 year old has reached their potential intellectual maturity. They will not develop more mentally over the rest of their lives.

    then:

    The 35 year old is in a relatively constant state and the 17 year old is in a relatively variable state. Because the 17 year old is in a variable state, she is pretty much guaranteed to think quite differently at say 30 than she does now. Therefore, allowing her to enter a relationship with someone who should know better (the 35 year old) if you are still in \"control\" of her as a parent, is irresponsible. The two people may match up now for some reason or another, but you have to realize that the 17 year old\'s thinking is going to fly around a lot before it settles, most likely in a different place.

    From there it should be pretty evident that the relationship is a bad idea. If I could help it as a parent, I would prevent a daughter from doing something that I knew was a bad (and potentially damaging) choice.

    * Q E D \' E D *


  • lock a person in a box for 35 years, barely keeping them alive. their brain would not develop. bring them out when they are 36. they would have the mental capacity of a newborn. can\'t talk, can\'t interact with people at all. let this shut-in interact with the environment now. they will develop new skills over time. yes, this person will be fucked up, but soon, he may learn to moan for his food or recognize faces..etc. his brain can still develop after 35...thats all i\'m saying. the brain doesnt shut down after 35...yes, its harder to learn at a later age, and children have a natural gift for language and such, but people can mentally develop at ANY age.

    \"you can\'t teach an old dog new tricks\" has been proven false time and time again.









  • Hawkeye Said:
    is a 35 five year old man with down\'s syndrome living in his parents basement intellectually mature? not in my eyes. he can\'t read, he doesnt understand complex emotions, and he can\'t take care of himself. he is a legal adult, with the mind of a preschooler. i would refer to him as an \"adult\" strictly in the legal sense.

    hes the exception that shatters your definitions. there are many other exceptions.


    no, he\'s the rule that shatters your mis-definition of mature!

    1)Having reached full natural growth or development:

    If all he will ever be is a man with a 5 year old mentality, worldview, and intelligence, then.

    B[YES]B

    he is MATURE.

    this is PRECISELY the point dshowcase has been trying to make this ENTIRE TIME.