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Happy Festivus!

by Jack Mathews, Dec 23, 2002 8:11am PST

December 23rd marks a very special day for all of us - Festivus. It's that time of year when everyone puts up their Festivus pole and tries to wrestle their father and keep him pinned. To make this is Festivus for the rest of us, the comment thread to this post is going to be home to the Airing of Grievances! Enjoy!




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  • 2002 has, for the most part, been a very good year for me. Although I went through a lot of problems this year, I have become a different and better person. I broke up with my girlfriend of two years and six months because I could just not take it anymore, I had reached the boiling point. So now I am back like before, being by myself, being like the person I was before I met her. And I enjoy this very much, because I love being by myself and going out with friends, doing things on my own judgement. Even throughout all these problems with the girlfriend, one thing has always been there for me, the Shack. So I would like to take this opportunity to thank the Shack for the advice it has given me and for simply being there for me. There is a reason I am still surfing this website, and it is because it brings me joy and comfort. This is a place where I feel at home and I feel I can connect with people. I hope this site stays up for many years to come. I am now more independent, mature, and strong than I ever was. My goal for 2003 is to become more enlightened, simple, and hopefully find a girl that I can connect with. I don't hold any grievances, I just learn from my mistakes and hopefully make each coming year better than the previous.


  • Though my 2002 went far better than most of yours, I will share my grievances as well:

    1) finally having a girl like me, but (at first) me not really liking her back. I was so shocked at the attention that I started going out with her, hoping I would develop feelings for her. I think I have, and it's only been about a month, but I still question whether or not I'm fully committed to this thing. I'm going to do my best when I get back to get involved though - I don't want this to end.

    2) My first quarter grades in college (C+, B-, B-, B); my worst grades ever. This, coupled with the realization that my life will never be as easy as it was before this step.

    3) Spending too much money while in college. I need a job. My college fund isn't worth shit anymore as the stock market took a dive.

    4) People who can't argue about things logically. Maybe it's because I'm surrounded by superchristians in my dorm, but having a productive discussion about religion is hopeless with these people. I realize how powerful being told something from birth can be, but these people are utterly unable to take a step back and analyze things logically. I'm no athiest, and I don't try to make other people disbelievers, but some things should be questioned in my opinion. I find myself often yearning for an absolute truth that we can all grasp onto. If only life was a simple as fairy tales made it out to be.

    5) Friends who only like you because of how you make them feel.

    6) Both my grandparents are dying. It's to be expected, but my mom is going to be hit hard when they go.

    I guess that's about it. Not even close to amount of shit some of you have gone through, but it still qualifies for stuff that sucks.